The other night, as we sat discussing writing projects and their duration, the subject of time came up. There were three of us, representing roughly three generations. The more we talked about time and how each of us currently sees it in terms of the future, the more I realized how differently each one of us viewed it. Time does not change. We do, and thus our view of time changes with age.
I claim to be a right here, right now kinda guy. I live in the present moment. As I contemplate writing a memoir, this seems to cause me an ‘angst’ problem in that I wanna, and I don’t wanna. (I also struggle with writing about myself, but that’s not the issue.) I like History. It could’ve been considered my second minor at A&M. My manuscript is historical-fiction with too much history and not enough fiction. This morning I was asked if I would write a time-travel book (I’m noticing that Vickie has a knack for asking me thought-provoking questions). I didn’t have a ready answer, but after a lot of discussion and thought, my answer is ‘nope.’
After doing a bit of reading, I’m no longer positive that I know what ‘this moment’ in time is, or if it exists. My metaphysical (woo-woo) friends get excited about this fascinating subject. When they do, I look at my watch and note, “It is one-forty, PM.” But they’re right. It’s really an interesting topic. Physicists and philosophers are all over it. Check out all the wiki and academic research (here and here), it goes on-and-on. But, I want to address time in terms of normal people; ya-know, like a truck-driver, retired cop, and Sociology grad-student walked into a bar to discuss it.
The grad student is a young female (they live longer) and has tons of time and a bright future. She is planning her entire future. The truck driver is a middle-age, overweight, heavy smoker and drinker. He doesn’t think about it much, but needs to change his life style in order to have more time. The retired cop has been there and done that. He feels like he’s been lucky and may be on “borrowed time.” Each can see past and future time differently, but they are now in the same place doing the same thing. The biggest difference is age.
It’s not so much that all of us can’t plan to write our novel with five sequels. It’s how we see the time that it will take to do that, not to mention the patience and persistence that will be required.
Two of my favorite songs about time are below. The first is Jim Croce’s Time in a Bottle. The video is with his wife, Ingrid, and their son, A.J. This song was recorded just before Jim’s untimely death and later released posthumously.
The second is a rendition of the Byrds’ Turn, Turn, Turn, which has a biblical, Ecclesiastes basis.
Finally, the last video is a George Carlin skit on time. It is about 11 minutes long, so if you’re not a Carlin fan, skip it. If you are, enjoy.
Oh my! Look at the time.
A very interesting topic and I like your take on it. Time is something, and it’s passing, has fascinated people through te ages. Shakespeare said – “time, and the tide, runs through the roughest day.” Probably a good thing as each day brings a sense of hope, renewal and the opportunity to try again.
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I find time fascinating and of course a necessary dimension for our human experience but you’re correct, all we ever have is right here, right now.
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Great post. Time goes on whether or not we think about it, so making the most of living in the moment is a wise move.
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Thank you, Nicola.
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Tired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch the rain
You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today
And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun – Pink Floyd, the greatest time song ever. If not the greatest song.
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Thank you for the addition.
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Division bell.
Yes.
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Hello there.
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Hi dad!
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If I could have had the possibiity tu “put” time inside a bottle, like the pictures of the first song…. I’d like to have in it the time when my only child -a daughter- many years ago was almost a baby… she died four years ago. And my advice, especially to young people as they have lots of time in front of them, it’s to LIVE all the moments as Life flies so fast…
I have some sentences that all of them start… Take time… for this or fot that… all of them vey good. I’m retired… litlle time in front of me…
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Thank you for the comments, Rosa. Such a sad loss which time cannot heal. I try to live all of life’s remaining moments too.
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I love both of those songs and George Carlin was amazing. Thanks for sharing all of those. “Time In A Bottle” will forever tug at my heart and “Turn” will always be a comfort. 🙂
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Good to hear that you liked it.
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